Another reason to love my husband
We've had some pretty knock-down, drag-out fights over the course of our relationship. Last night could potentially have devolved into one, but it didn't. He did something that bothers me, but the reasons it bothers me are completely irrational. Rather than getting defensive or trying to rush me through an explanation, he allowed me to work through my emotions and figure out exactly why it bothers me and the reasoning behind it. And while my emotions and reasoning didn't quite make it right, it made sense to him and he made an effort to understand. He gets the Good Baboo Gold Star!
Posted by beenie at July 22, 2003 11:45 AM